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              “我數三下”為何十分有效

              作者:admin
              發布時間 2016年-04月-11日
              來源: 新啟航教育
              點擊:
              “我數三下”是個很有意思問題,國內外的教育里都存在相同的情況,很多時候被認為是一種“條件反射”。下面就隨小編一起來看看1/2/3為何這么有效?
                      這個問題有意思,因為國內外的教育里都存在這樣的情況,只不過通常在我們的印象中,這句話緊隨的就是威脅,例如“媽媽就走了啊”,“媽媽就生氣了啊”,“媽媽就不理你了啊”……很多時候被認為是一種“條件反射”的解釋。但這一解釋只是闡明了為何威脅會有效,并沒有真正回答問題。
                為什么數“1,2,3”會有效?
                給孩子留出過渡時間!
              實際上,兒童的內在節奏感是遠慢于成人的,尤其是性格內向和不喜歡運動的孩子。尤其當兒童在進行自己喜歡的活動時,這一點更加顯著。所以,當家長需要他們停止這一活動,進行另一個新的活動時,這一點就更為顯著。所以,國外的育兒專家建議,需要給兒童留出過渡時間,讓他們有所準備。數“1,2,3”正是這樣一種留出過渡時間,讓孩子慢慢把注意力從當前的事情上挪到另一件事上的辦法。
                為何有時候數了“1,2,3”也沒有效果?
                給孩子的過渡時間不夠!
                因為你給孩子留出的過渡時間不夠。當孩子越是喜歡當前正在做的事情時,越是需要更長的過渡時間,來幫助他轉移注意力。所以我們經常聽到家長原本計劃數“1,2,3”,數到后來就變成了“1,2,2.5,2.6……2.91,……3”。這是有耐心的家長,性子急一點的,直接就把一開始提到的那些威脅放上來,甚至直接把孩子撂一邊先走了。
                如何幫助孩子順利過渡?
                拉長過渡時間不失為一種好辦法!
                明確地告知接下來的“日程表”是什么,并且闡明原因。當他們對未來進行的事有所了解,甚至感興趣以后,就會順利地轉移注意力。例如,小萌6個月的時候,我們希望他能停止玩耍,好好吃米粉,就會說:“小萌,現在我們要吃甜甜的米粉啦!吃完米粉以后,小萌就會長高長大喲!之后,如果你還有肚子,我們可以吃你最喜歡的牛油果喔!”這時,原本對食物不感興趣的小萌,就會盯著牛油果,拼命張著嘴往前夠米粉。神奇吧!西爾斯醫生說,孩子真正的理解力,是你認為的他的理解力的2倍。
                以固定形式告別或開始!
                例如唱“再見歌”,揮手和正在玩的玩具/小朋友們說再見。這樣能形成良性的條件反射。
                編后語:特別提醒
                威脅孩子也許短期內有效,但是長此以往會讓孩子失去對家長的安全感,容易產生叛逆和迎合兩種扭曲的相處方式,在未來滋生更多問題。小編一直很喜歡龍應臺的一本書《孩子,你慢慢來》,主要講述的就是要按照兒童自己的緩慢節奏去觀察、認識世界并作出互動。其中,也列舉過很多生動的例子;結論就是,孩子,你以你的節奏慢慢來,媽媽會陪你一起慢下來!
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