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              讓孩子盲目“聽話” 或成“庸才”

              作者:admin
              發布時間 2016年-04月-11日
              來源: 新啟航教育
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              “聽話”的孩子走上社會后,就很容易被花言巧語所欺騙,造成辦事能力的不足。其實這不是孩子的問題,而是家長教育理念的問題。只有改變這種教人“聽話”的教育理念,才會有

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                孩子的蘋果——不一定非是紅色的
                
                一位幼兒教育專家到國外看到一個幼兒用藍色筆畫了一個“大蘋果”,老師走過來說:“嗯,畫得好!”,孩子高興極了。這時中國專家問教師:“他用藍色畫蘋果,你怎么不糾正?”那個教師說:“我為什么要糾正呢?也許他以后真的能培育出藍色的蘋果呢!”
                
                其實外國教師或家長這樣容忍孩子“不聽話”是有道理的,它可以保護孩子的想像力,激發孩子的創造力。當然允許孩子“不聽話”指的主要是思維上的“不聽話”,孩子們看到的世界是獨特的,他們的想像力是很豐富的。如果我們用成人的思維方式對他們粗暴地干涉,就會扼殺他們的想像力和創造力。
                
                乖孩子更多是“庸才”
                
                著名的德國心理學家海查曾做過如下的實驗:他對二至五歲時有強烈反抗傾向的100名兒童與沒有這種傾向的100名兒童跟蹤觀察到青年期。結果發現前者有84%的人意志堅強,有主見,有獨立分析、判斷事物和做出決定的能力。而后者僅有26%的人意志堅強,其余的人遇事不能做決定,不能獨立承擔責任。
                
                綜合來看,“乖孩子”真正成為社會精英、業界尖子的不多,他們大多在一般勞動崗位上工作。當然,并不是說“不聽話”的孩子就一定聰明,出尖子。
                
                孩子的“聽話”應更多體現在生活規矩、行為道德上,而孩子天性好動,鬼主意多,父母應做出正確的引導,用于在學習和對待事情上。當孩子出鬼主意時,父母可以與孩子一起挖掘更多的樂趣,引導他們應用在實際生活上。
                
                不要讓孩子盲目聽話
                
                童話大王鄭淵潔說他從來沒有對自己的孩子高聲說過一句話,也從來沒有說過“你要聽話”。“因為我覺得把孩子往聽話了培養那不是培養奴才嗎?”心理學家認為,三歲的孩子不反抗,就不是正常兒童。即使五六歲的孩子,他們的反抗行為也是很明顯的。
                
                我們應該培養的是一個不盲目聽話的孩子。孩子不但不盲目地聽我們的話,而且對所有值得他懷疑的問題,他都會有自己的思考,并且可以無所畏懼地說出來。而這個“無所畏懼”依賴于平時一個寬松的環境,假如他面對的是一個嚴厲的環境,他不敢說。我們只要從小告訴他一個原則,一個標準。在這個標準下,他知道什么東西去執行,什么東西堅決反對,掌握好這個度就可以了。不是不管他們,而是怎樣合理地管的問題。

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